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Post by finnmom on Jul 25, 2005 14:58:04 GMT -5
I dont know what´s going on, I´am spending my last holiday week, kid´s are cranky, dh is working, so mayby that´s the reason Thing´s have gone quite well, me with the kids all day, but today... today was a bad rotten day Ds was SO ANGRY, I dont know why.... his friend(one of the 2 I´am not so terribly excited of ) came over first time in a week, girl´s were girl´s, mom was NOT TOO STRICT AT ALL But oh boy, can that ds of mine be cranky All he did was yelling at me, throughin temper tantrum´s, teasing girl´s, running, screaming..... the hole nine yard´s And, when mom had the nerve to tell him to slow down and go to his room MORE YELLING AND BLAIMING He has played one computer game I´am not so pleased with, at first he got angry every time after playing that, but it got better, until today.... no more computertime for him.... and he cant understand why not He think´s "Hi mom" with loving voice will do the trick so mommy-dearest will let him play Well, NOT and then I´am the mommy-meanest again He dont get lot of time to play computergame´s, not at all, just 20 min´s every now and then, and I´am completely monitoring the time with that excact game.... Weather it´s the friend coming over after long time, we staying at home with no fun or the game.... It was A BAD DAY TODAY Had to tell that to someone, thank´s for reading
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Post by milesofsmiles on Jul 25, 2005 16:26:31 GMT -5
So sorry to hear that you have had a bad day. Looks like your day is just about over and you can relax for a while. Take the time to recover. It is by no fault of the parents that sometimes our little ones have these terrible days. Our therapist always blames it on being tired. I don't but it, but at times, that is just it. We were going to start down the road to yelling and screaming this weekend and it had something to do with the show Nate was watching. It had some physical humor in it, and as he was watching it, he got more and more snotty, more demanding and less considerate for others feelings, more yelling instead of talking. It could be your ds was just overwhelmed by the whole friend thing and inappropriately took it out on you. After I got my ds away from the TV, he spent some alone time, then pulled out a board game and asked me to play. That was a first for me. It was fun. We all have those bad days, we just pray that we have a few good ones in between. Get some rest. Miles
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Post by Linda on Jul 25, 2005 17:52:16 GMT -5
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Post by mothercat on Jul 25, 2005 20:44:55 GMT -5
Bad days seem to come and go around here...I hope your bad days have gone away for a good long while seems like every so often we have a horrible one then it's gone and the kids tend to think it never happened. Take it easy and have a better day tomorrow than today.
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Post by SKay on Jul 25, 2005 21:27:45 GMT -5
Kids--we just don't know what triggers their behavior sometimes! I hope you have a better day tomorrow.
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Post by finnmom on Jul 26, 2005 0:33:11 GMT -5
Thank you all, i knew you would understand. It´s allready "tomorrow" for me, so let´s see how this one turn´s out to be..... Propably much better since I´ve desided to pack them in to the car and drive to see my folk´s, kid´s can run around nd someone else will be wathcing them for a while I´am sneaky I think a lot of the behaviour come´s from the game and friend coming over... so; limited time with game and friend should do it.... We´ve had so many good day´s that It just so hard to accapt a hard one too...
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Post by Linda on Jul 26, 2005 6:15:17 GMT -5
And they are not even teens yet!! ;D ;D ;D
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Post by Amsmom on Jul 26, 2005 6:15:49 GMT -5
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Post by camismom on Jul 26, 2005 7:42:39 GMT -5
Well Marja, after having that no-good, terrible, really rotten day yesterday I hope your day today is going better! As far as being the meanest mommy, dang! I thought I was! lol
Take care, and hey, quit being so mean! The nerve of you telling him to calm down and go to his room! hehe
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Post by finnmom on Jul 26, 2005 11:32:08 GMT -5
I know, how can I be so narrow-minded not to accept those little thing´s they do Today has been much better, luckily, granparent´s did the best they could It´s getting better.... And linda, i dont even want to think about teenage Please let me think this is hard... just for a little while
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Post by camismom on Jul 26, 2005 12:00:02 GMT -5
And linda, i dont even want to think about teenage Please let me think this is hard... just for a little while Yeah, let's not burst her bubble just yet.
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Post by Linda on Jul 26, 2005 13:59:06 GMT -5
ok I won't burst her bubble!! ;D ;D ;D ;DYET
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Post by finnmom on Jul 27, 2005 1:09:39 GMT -5
ok I won't burst her bubble!! ;D ;D ;D ;D YETThank you, so nice of you ;D ;D ;D
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Post by Linda on Jul 27, 2005 6:19:46 GMT -5
I had my day with Jacob yesterday Marja. I don't think he knew how close he was to not see another day ;D ;D I don't know what it is when they start to run their mouths and be disrespectful. At least I could send him home when his dad got home from work.
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Post by finnmom on Jul 27, 2005 7:35:41 GMT -5
Grandparent´s are lucky that way, can enjoy the grankid´s and then send them away ;D ;D ;D But, my parent´s did raise me.... so, mayby they´ve done their share already
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