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Post by babytay on Aug 10, 2005 10:06:57 GMT -5
Hi,
I hope everyone is well. I have been very busy at work lately and I cant post at home because I dont have internet at home.
I am doing ok. Things are good because school is out.
I just wanted to keep in touch with everyone.
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Post by finnmom on Aug 10, 2005 10:14:12 GMT -5
Babytay  I saw you online and thought; finally where has she been  No really, it´s nice to see you´re back again, I hope you´ve had a good summer, dont be a stranger anymore |
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Post by tridlette on Aug 10, 2005 10:15:53 GMT -5
Long time away in person, but not far from our thoughts! Glad summer is treating you well! Enjoy what is left of it! Laurie
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Post by camismom on Aug 10, 2005 10:22:44 GMT -5
Good to hear from you Babytay! I knew it had been a while. Don't you hate it when you actually have to work while at work? ;D ;D I get that sometimes too! Hope to see you more soon and that things will stay good even when school resumes. Take care.
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Post by babytay on Aug 10, 2005 11:52:03 GMT -5
You all make me feel very welcome all the time. It is like family no matter how long you stay away you are always a part of the family.
I have been working and trying to focus on myself for a while I had been really depressed for sometime. I am a little better now I did seek some help for a while. I know it sounds selfish but I had to. I talked to my children and I explained that at some point they have to take responsiblilty for there actions. We have still had problems my oldest son still has a smart mouth at times and my 9 yr old is still adhd but I handle it differently.
I dont get all stressed (at least I try not to) I make sure I take sometime for myself in the evening. I take lots of deep breaths. I accept some of our problems as a part of life now. I understand that things are never going to be perfect. It has taken lots of time but I think I am getting to a point where I feel mature and in some type of control.
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Post by camismom on Aug 10, 2005 12:10:39 GMT -5
I know it sounds selfish but I had to. That doesn't sound selfish at all! In fact, completely opposite! In order to be a better person, a better parent, and even to save our sanity we have to take care of ourselves too. And you know, I understand what you are saying completely because I have been there myself. I just started taking SJW to ward off a rebout of depression and I too have had to learn to abide by the old "pick your battles" thinking. I hope things continue to look up for you.  |
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Post by finnmom on Aug 10, 2005 12:13:25 GMT -5
Babytay, youshould never feel selfish takingcare of yourself, remémber, you have to take care of yourself in oreder to care dor other´s. I´am so clad you´ve got some help for yourself too |
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