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Post by camismom on Aug 3, 2005 10:38:50 GMT -5
Just venting! My ex husband is a floor installer. As most of you know we have a pretty good relationship despite our being divorced. He has put carpet in our house before. Well, back on April 9th we bought ceramic tile for our kitchen, laundry room, garage entry (between kitchen and laundry), foyer, and main bathroom. I had spoke to ex before about putting it down for us if we bought it and the day we bought it called him while in the store to double check with him about it. He consistently said yes, he could and would do it for us. Well, almost four months after buying it, he finally got around to starting on it this past Monday. That is my first gripe. When we bought it he told me he could do it within a couple weeks. I went ahead then with repainting the bathroom not worrying with covering the current floor because I expected it to soon be replaced. For almost four months we have dealt with a bathroom with paint splatters on the floor waiting on his "couple weeks" to pass. We had been told on at least three occasions, "I haven't forgot about y'all... I'll probably get to you next week." Now yes, during this time his mother has had a cancer scare and he has had a minor surgery on his wrist, but he has continued working other jobs. Anyway, he finally start on it Monday. He shows up at 10:00, without half the tools he needs. Has to leave mid-day to go round them up, comes back and leaves for the day shortly after 5:00. Kitchen only half layed, foyer layed. He comes back yesterday around 10:30 best guess and was gone when my husband got home at 4:30. Other hald of kitchen layed, only small portion grouted, fridge sitting in middle of floor, foyer complete. So, all he did yesterday was lay the other half of the kitchen, grout the area under where the fridge normally sits, and grout the foyer. It is 11:36 my time today and according to Cami he hasn't even shown up yet or called! ARGH! Now, he still has the garage entry way adjacent to the kitchen, the laundry room, and the bathroom to go. At this rate lord nows when he'll be done! Mind you he IS being paid for this. If he treats all his customers this way, it's a wonder he stays in business!!
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Post by Linda on Aug 3, 2005 12:30:40 GMT -5
I haven't seen a contractor yet that showed up and completed the job on time....they have too many irons in the fire!!! I feel for ya girl....been there
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Post by camismom on Aug 3, 2005 13:27:13 GMT -5
I haven't seen a contractor yet that showed up and completed the job on time....they have too many irons in the fire!!! I feel for ya girl....been there ;D ;D ;D ;D You know... ... this is true! Ex or stranger. Thanks for reminding me. When we had our house built we incurred these problems... I guess since it was so long ago I just forgot. He arrived at 12:30. I'll see what more was done today when I get home.
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Post by AnneM on Aug 3, 2005 15:55:51 GMT -5
Oh I can feel for you !! ... When I decide to have something done I want it done NOW, NOW, NOW or even YESTERDAY!! ... but I also agree with Linda in that they keep way too many irons in the fire!! ... (good terminology Linda and TRUE!) .. I hope, hope, hope this will be done SOON SOON SOON !! ... The other thing I ALSO wish is that they would be HONEST with us !! ... i.e. if they cannot do it within a certain time frame then just SAY SO!! ALSO the friendship with your ex might be a hinderance in these circumstances rather than a help (meaning that he "might" be thinking ... "Oh I KNOW Christy so she won't mind waiting" ...)
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Post by milesofsmiles on Aug 3, 2005 16:03:40 GMT -5
You could hold the check and get to it when you don't have so many irons in the fire... ;D ;D Miles
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Post by Sorka on Aug 3, 2005 16:11:51 GMT -5
Even thought you are paying him he probably is looking at it as more of a favour than a job because you are 'family' so do cut some slack here. It will get done.. I am sure he treats other jobs with a bit more of professionalism. (at least ?I hope..)
Denise
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Post by Blue Oreo on Aug 4, 2005 11:14:02 GMT -5
I AM SO THERE too with the contractors. I came back here after being gone all winter in the safehouse, and there was a leak over the woodstove . I called the insurance company and they sent people over to veiw it and give estimates . Well the next day they came and did a temp fix to stop the leaks. A full week later some crazy looking guy shows up and tears down the tongue and groove over the mantles and leaves . Now that wasnt so bad, if behind the T&G wasnt moldy and black and exposed to the air for us . I couldnt use the woodstove, so we froze in here for another 3 days . Then this HUGE burly guy comes in and bring massive tools, and moves all the furniture and takes a sledge hammer and smashes into the walls, I am freaking at this point. Plaster and mold are flying all over my house, mind you I have Asthma and my youngest. We had to leave or I would have killed the dude ;D , then would have had to stuff his big butt in my woodstove to hide the evidence. ;D I came back 3 hours later and he was gone, but a HUGE hole in my wall was there . Another week passed and they finally finished things , and then tackled the roof.. WELL common sense to me would be FIX the roof first , BUT NOOOOOOOOOOO they did things backwards ;D . Hmmm maybe thats why I dont see many female construction workers, they would kill the dinky guys for being idiots. ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Post by mothercat on Aug 4, 2005 14:12:17 GMT -5
If you are paying the going rate then you should expect to be treated like a "valued" customer. If not then you should remember the old saying you get what you pay for and wait in line. Thats how Bobo puts it before hand when family and friends want him to do work for them, but then he does auto repair not tile laying. If you are paying the normal rate then he is lacking in a few areas. Did the lack of responsibility and reliability have anything to do with why you divorced him? ;D I cant stand repair men...it always takes longer than they say..last time we had something done was the roof soffets...it took 3 different crews to get the job done.
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Post by camismom on Aug 4, 2005 20:32:13 GMT -5
Did the lack of responsibility and reliability have anything to do with why you divorced him? ;D I'm not going to answer that... ;D ;D I can't really say if he is cutting us a deal... I know we are paying him less than what Lowe's installer quoted, but it's been 15 years since ex has put in tile so he says he isn't charging that much since he is "rusty". That too is what is taking him a while because he is taking his time while he reaquaints himself. For that, I won't complain. LOL Anyway, he was here until about 7 last night and got more done and then today.... another gripe but I'm trying to keep it to myself and squelch it by reminding myself that at least it's getting done...he showed up about 3:30 or 4:00 and is still here at 9:30. Now, keep in mind I was off today and took Cami school clothes shopping. We left the house at 9:00 am for an ortho appnt then hit the mall. We were gone ALL day... I gave him spare keys last night to let himself in today since we wouldn't be here. He had ALL DAY to be here with noone else here and waited until 4 to show up. Yes he had other irons to handle but they are new construction so he could have hit them anytime. Anyway, here it is 9:30, he's still going, and my current hubby is now the one griping since he has to get up at 3:00 am tomorrow, has been up since 3:30 am today, and is ready to get to bed. ;D ;D I'm off again tomorrow so I can deal. hehe Oh well! Be careful what you wish for. ;D Bright side is it's getting done and it's looking real good! Plus our home value is increasing!
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Post by finnmom on Aug 5, 2005 7:25:44 GMT -5
Christy, i hope he get´s it done QUICKLY We would need a kitchen redone, but I dont really want to spend all tha money yet and it´s o´kay for now and I hate to think that we eould have building projeckt going on in here right now So, we´re waiting a bit more...mayby I dont really NEED a new kitchen yet....
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Post by SKay on Aug 5, 2005 9:35:11 GMT -5
Christy, if he stays late again or is just there at a bad time, maybe you and DH can start making out in front of him. ;D
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Post by mothercat on Aug 5, 2005 15:06:22 GMT -5
ANY contractor...family, exfamily or whatever..should have more sense than to intrude on any family that late at night.. Bobo's step dad used to say he was out till 11:30 to as late as 1:00 a.m. working on peoples houses...(yeah right) but she believed him...I would nicely just tell him like man 8p.m. is the latest he can be there as your hubby needs sleep or whatever ..
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Post by camismom on Aug 8, 2005 9:15:58 GMT -5
ANY contractor...family, exfamily or whatever..should have more sense than to intrude on any family that late at night.. Bobo's step dad used to say he was out till 11:30 to as late as 1:00 a.m. working on peoples houses...(yeah right) Oh, ex is well known for working that late...but 99% of what he does is new construction. He did finally get finished and it looks SO good! He arrived Friday at 4 and was there until about 7:30. Then Saturday showed up at 5 and it was close to 8 pm when he left for good... and was heading to another place to put down a wood floor! Four nights in a row he was there right at and thru our dinner time... but again, it is finally done and so I am happy.
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Post by camismom on Aug 8, 2005 9:20:04 GMT -5
Christy, if he stays late again or is just there at a bad time, maybe you and DH can start making out in front of him. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Oh, I like that idea!!!
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Post by finnmom on Aug 8, 2005 23:08:05 GMT -5
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