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Post by Blue Oreo on Jul 15, 2005 12:40:08 GMT -5
 WOOOHOOOO my divorce is final as of 10:30 ;)yesterday.. the jerk didnt get the 50k  he demanded, nor did the judge allow his other demand, which was for ME to repay HIM for all the gifts  he gave me and the kids over the entire 13yrs marriage, so we MAY keep them. The judge laughed ;D him right out of the courtroom with that greedy little trick. This shows how low this man stooped trying to get money back for things he gifted us. I had the judge remove all HIS parental rights as well, since the kids dont need to be associated with this kind of father anymore . WOOHOOOO big Party in ALASKA this week.. everyone is invited.. ;D
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Post by milesofsmiles on Jul 15, 2005 12:51:52 GMT -5
Congratulations? I hardly ever like to hear that a marriage ends, but when ridiculous demands are made, I wonder what is the sense in that? Is my memory right that his family and friends are "out there", and you had to seek a safe place to live? I am happy for you and your kids, you deserve the freedom and happiness. Miles  |
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Post by finnmom on Jul 15, 2005 13:17:32 GMT -5
Based on what you´ve told us about him, I´am happy for you  Sound´s like he is a real jerk  Is he still bothering you or can you all live in peace now, i hope thing´s will get better for you now |
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Post by Linda on Jul 15, 2005 13:32:05 GMT -5
Based on what you´ve told us about him, I´am happy for you Sound´s like he is a real jerk Is he still bothering you or can you all live in peace now, i hope thing´s will get better for you now I hope things get better for you too and you are not bothered by this jerk. |
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Post by AnneM on Jul 15, 2005 14:30:03 GMT -5
Blue Oreo ...  I think you have known for some time that you are way better off without this person in your life ... HERE's to a much better future for you !! |
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Post by camismom on Jul 15, 2005 14:43:32 GMT -5
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Post by Kaiti on Jul 15, 2005 17:28:10 GMT -5
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Post by Blue Oreo on Jul 15, 2005 20:43:13 GMT -5
Yeah for 6 months we had to move into hiding in a safe house 900 miles away from here, which he found out where we were and harassed us there too, the courts and cops did nothing as usual. The jerk is moving back down to Portland Oregon with his "family" he abandoned years ago, go figure they want him back.. I will have peace when he leaves at the end of this month, right now he is scrounging for money where ever he can get it, so I have the burglar alarm set when we leave. The kids are very excited he is gone and NOT their father anymore..
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Post by Amsmom on Jul 16, 2005 9:24:46 GMT -5
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Post by Blue Oreo on Jul 16, 2005 12:25:51 GMT -5
AMSMOM... I demanded it in court in part of the settlement hearing. AND remember this, if he has a domestic violance  order on him, or ever had one, you can DEMAND supervised visitation, mine had it but refused to see the kids which made removing his parental rights easier with the judge. With him having his rights removed, it removed any child support as well, which wasnt much or on time anyway. He knows how to work the CSED system and worked only a few hours on the legal clock , but also had a job under the table he didnt claim either . The kids are very happy he isnt in their life anymore , and now we/they can go anywhere in town without fear he isnt in the store or area . Good Luck on your butthead too. Mine showed his true colors in court showing up in filthy rags and demanding to be repaid for presents bought for the kids  over the years so THEY could keep them. I wish yall could have seen the judges ;D face and what he told him with that request. The look on buttheads face was PRICELESS.. LMAO ;D |
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Post by Amsmom on Jul 16, 2005 12:32:46 GMT -5
supervised visits were ordered, but he refuses to see ds also b/c he wants to see him alone. i dont push it b/c i dont even want ds to see him. i love the idea that b/c your butthead stopped seeing the kids, the judge took away any visitation. thats what i would like. he is thousands of dollars behind in childsupport so i wouldnt miss that ending since it doesnt happen!
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Post by Blue Oreo on Jul 16, 2005 12:49:57 GMT -5
Go back to court and let them know he refuses to see because of the supervision idea, the butthead was the same way, even though the supervisor was my step dad who is two faced and played both sides. Up here, if he was behind that much, his butt woulfd be in jail doing manditory job release and the money going right to you. Send in a petition to the courts to have his rights removed, due to lack of parental responsibilities and his LACK financial responsiblities, which can be proven on record with CSED. Good Luck... it does work out in the end. I never pushed butthead seeing the kids either, cause it was thier choice not mine to see him and they didnt want to see him anyway.
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Post by Kaiti on Jul 16, 2005 14:20:57 GMT -5
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Post by Blue Oreo on Jul 17, 2005 11:49:19 GMT -5
What helped in my case was the Judge . He was the same one I had with all the renewed protection orders against my ex. So he knew the history and just how he really was with lying. Thank You so much, its been in the process a very long time, 19 months and now its over with FOREVER.... |
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