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Post by tridlette on Jul 13, 2005 15:42:57 GMT -5
Oh, Lise, I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  I cannot imagine the sadness of losing your Dad, but my heart goes out to you. He was obviously a wonderful man, he had a beautiful daughter to prove it. Let us help you through, tell us what we can do. My prays are with you, that you can find peace in the days ahead.  Laurie |
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Post by AnneM on Jul 13, 2005 15:47:03 GMT -5
Oh Lise ... I think I have missed a thread here.... I am SOOOOOO sorry to hear this ... I lost my Dad a few years ago ... and although I can promise you the pain does become much easier to deal with in the passing of time I still miss him ... I am just sooooo sorry .... |
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Post by vickilyn32 on Jul 13, 2005 16:28:50 GMT -5
I am sending prayers ++++++++++++++ to your family during this time. I am sorry to hear of your loss.
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Post by Linda on Jul 13, 2005 16:31:10 GMT -5
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Post by Amsmom on Jul 13, 2005 19:27:35 GMT -5
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Post by finnmom on Jul 14, 2005 3:31:09 GMT -5
Lise, I too, am so rry for your loss |
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Post by mom2tj on Jul 29, 2005 12:40:10 GMT -5
Thanks for all your hugs,
sorry it took so long to reply I needed time, I'm doing ok working is very hard since I work..... well.... I used to work for him, now I work for my mom....
DS #1 is finding it very hard, thank God for his summer camp I dont know what I would have done. without it, I kept him medicated even if I had planned a summer break. he get depressed without them I thought it was not the time... I hope his dr. does'nt get to upset at his weight loss.....
DS #2 just keeps asking where is grand-pa... makes my Mom cry, he's only 3 1/2 he doesnt get it....
anyway I wont bore you with this just thanks again....
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Post by milesofsmiles on Jul 29, 2005 12:48:27 GMT -5
Lise, Of course you are not boring us. That is what we are here for. I found that it is often better to type out how you are feeling rather than talking to someone. It give you time to think about how you are feeling and experiencing. It is so though to keep being reminded every day about your Dad, we are here when you want to vent and share what you feel comfortable with. Miles |
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Post by catseye on Jul 29, 2005 13:10:52 GMT -5
Lise I too am just seeing this, and am so very sorry for your loss... I worked for my mom and dad, when my mom died, in the same building she died in... It is very hard! Hang in there and stay strong... cat |
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Post by camismom on Jul 29, 2005 13:40:24 GMT -5
Lise, I am so sorry to hear this! I too think I missed a thread somewhere.
My heart breaks for you and I send you lots of hugs and support. I know you've been with him through his long battle and it's been hard on you all. Just take comfort (if you can) in knowing he fought a good one and now he's where he doesn't have to fight anymore.
Let me know if there is ANYTHING I can do for you!
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Post by mom2tj on Jul 30, 2005 8:35:12 GMT -5
thanks Christy thats very nice of you....
I think your a bit confusted in my story ....
my Dad didnt fight long unfortunatly .... its my FIL that is still fighting since over a year now FIL is in lots of pain, in a way I'm glad my dad didnt have to live that way........
my dad found out on fathers day!!! that there was no hope, he died on july 8th he had no time to clear all the paper work with the bank ect... he never came out from the hospital...
I dont think dr. know what they are doing in this field.... way back in Feb when this started with dear dad, the drs told him dont worry youll still be here in 5 years.... they also told my FIL he woulnt see June...... now drs are telling FIL he has a year left.... a year of pain!!! I realy wonder why God doesnt come this poor man.
I have lots of grief I miss him so much, my dad was my hero my rock my sugar daddy and I love him so much but my fath tells me he is in a better place and I will see him again one day.
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