Post by anneke on Mar 13, 2004 8:42:12 GMT -5
hello
now that I am graduated my mum wants me to help in the housholding. I dont mind to clean or vacume when she asks. but she does not want to ask, she want that I see it on my one. and thats the problem I dont see it. so I am mad at her becouse she does not want to ask it and she is mad becouse she thinks I dont want to help.
I know that one day I leave the house I have to make dayplanner and on monday I wil clean the bathroom an d on tuseday the living room ans do this for the whole week. I probabely wont have an other option.
my mother does not have a week planner she cleans when she thinks it is dirty. she is not a woman that cleans too mutch and is obseced but her tolerance of dirt is smaller than mine.
so everythime we have discussions while she is yelling ' you have to learn to see it' and I am yelling 'just ask'.
by tha way has she raised me emancipated and am I mad at the two male members of our family that they are the ones who are getting the house dirthy but they never have to help. by the way is my brother better in ironing than, my mother and my ( he lived half a year on his one).
by the way cleaning makes my have the same feeling like when I am cloustofobic
al these trobles and the only thing I want is that she just asked me. i will be happy when the weather is better and i can clean out the garden becouse my mum does not like it and I do
anneke
now that I am graduated my mum wants me to help in the housholding. I dont mind to clean or vacume when she asks. but she does not want to ask, she want that I see it on my one. and thats the problem I dont see it. so I am mad at her becouse she does not want to ask it and she is mad becouse she thinks I dont want to help.
I know that one day I leave the house I have to make dayplanner and on monday I wil clean the bathroom an d on tuseday the living room ans do this for the whole week. I probabely wont have an other option.
my mother does not have a week planner she cleans when she thinks it is dirty. she is not a woman that cleans too mutch and is obseced but her tolerance of dirt is smaller than mine.
so everythime we have discussions while she is yelling ' you have to learn to see it' and I am yelling 'just ask'.
by tha way has she raised me emancipated and am I mad at the two male members of our family that they are the ones who are getting the house dirthy but they never have to help. by the way is my brother better in ironing than, my mother and my ( he lived half a year on his one).
by the way cleaning makes my have the same feeling like when I am cloustofobic
al these trobles and the only thing I want is that she just asked me. i will be happy when the weather is better and i can clean out the garden becouse my mum does not like it and I do
anneke
