I AM BACK!!!! Yippeeeeee

[BlueOreo]

HIYA guys and gals .. Its been a longtime since I was here, for several reasons. First, my restraining orders were'nt being enforced and we had to go into hiding in a safehouse 900 miles away for our safety. Yes, it was crazy, packed and gone in less then a week. I lost all my info for this place until today when I got an e-mail out of the blue. I sure missed it alot. My DD has been wild and crazy, we changed meds I dont know how many times trying to get her "tolerable" to be around. She injured her brother and caused an elbow bleed two weeks ago. ( he's a hemophiliac). She swears it was an "accident" but she made him fly 3 feet into the air before smashing down on his left elbow and causing damages again. We took her to a beavioral center here in town and they wanted to commit her for treatment, I refused flat out. Lil girls there get raped and have other things happen to her. SO I opted for home treatments, took me 3 months to get her an appt with them, so now its finally here and maybe we can shed some light into her lil world of terror on us. BUT on the good news,, I now have lost over 152lbs during our "hiding" phase. The safehouse they put us in was in a neighborhood full of sexual offenders, which wasnt good, so I had them pack us up and bring us back home to my house up here were I know the neighborhood is safe for the kids to play. The troopers are enforcing the DVRO for a change since I filed charges with the courts on them . WELL guys.. its good to be back here where I can be around people who know what I am going through with my DD. Thanks for this site. I missed it terribly.

[tridlette]

Welcome home! I am so excited that you are back with us! And GREAT JOB on the weight loss! Maybe you can help out "Dear Flabby" on the Non ADHD thread! She sure could use support of someone who is successful!

[Kaiti]

;)GlaD TO HAVE YOU BACK

As far as the weight loss, can I be as forward and ask if I am remembering correctly, you had surgery? Or am I losing it an dlooking like a total idiot

Anyhow, welcome back andfeel free to pick away at everyone's brains, it might help you out a bit more.


Kaiti

[BlueOreo]

YES.. your melon is still intacted and working proper. I had gastric bypass 15 months ago. I went from 330lbs down to what my friends now call "skinny female dog size".. lol I am now in size 13 junior jeans, I can wear my DD's pants now.. go figure.

One good thing I got out of the butthead is his insurance covered it all. woohoooo...

[catseye]

I am so glad the mass email brought you back!!

[Linda]

Hi and double hi ;D ;DI am so happy to have you back.

You have had a lot of changes happen to you...unbelievable

I think what you need to do is write a book

Don't be a stranger...look around..we have a lot of new members you need to get acquainted with.

[BlueOreo]

OMG.. I could write a book for whats gone on with us over the last year here. Its crazy, but if it wasnt that way, then I wouldnt have found the love of my life now. He is the greatest thing since sliced bread. I am now stuck on this place again, so I wont be a strangers anymore.

[Linda]

Tell us more

[BlueOreo]

Well, after I got the restraining oders for domestic voilance on him, he broke in the house stole me blind, and left his clothes all over my bed, he stalked us around town, followed me in the stores, called my family and sent messages to us all against the oders, and then he sent people over here trying to steal things from here for him, also filled out a credit card application in my name and maxed it out for his "girlfriends on the side", then drained the bank accounts out. During the break ins, he stole my DD diamond earrings and my jewelry, and cookies she sold for girl scouts that I had to replace. I called the troopers every time he broke the DVRO, and they did nothing, I actually had one jerk cop tell me I was the problem, not the wife beater himself who violated the restraining orders. I freaked out and asked him if he killed me would be enforce it then, no answer which is figured on, and then called my family who then called the troopers in the town where they are and they arranged to get us a safehouse where he couldnt find us. BUT, my stupid sister who still talks to him would always send us messages from him against the orders and she knew it too. It was all I could do not to have her sorry butt tossed in jail with him. I found out a few weeks into moving into the place, that there were 5 sexual offenders living around the corner. We had to stay there from June till the end of November, we had enough by then. I was still paying the bills on the house up here and down there. I couldnt do it anymore. In that time I found my prince charming, well he found me down there and we met and havent been apart since. He quit his job down there and moved back up here with us. While down there he taught me self defence and how to shoot a glock to protect myself if he isnt around and butthead tries to break in again. I can legal shoot him if he tresspasses now. I still have a years order of protection in tact for us, just in case. Meantime, butthead is still up to old tricks and wont give it up, court is in July, and he finally admitted to the judge all the nasty things he did to me over the years together. Oh well his loss now. My kids and I are doing very well here now and they have their old school mates back which is a good thing for not having to much change so soon. I did loose my golden lab last month once we got back here from renal failure, it was horrible he died in my arms, and my cat of 20 yrs passed the day after we got back, he knew he was home and could let go.

[Linda]

You have had one heck of a time that is for sure. I hope things are looking up for you know.


I am so sorry about your pets...they become so much a part of us.

[finnmom]

Blue it´s nice to have you back.

I ´am so sorry for your hard time, but hope that you´ll have better time´s ahead you now, when you have this new person at your side You sure have your plate full, please dont be a stranger, I´am so glad our mass-email got you back here See you, take care!!!

[camismom]

Welcom back! for the crap you've dealt with the last several months! and Congrats on that incredible weight loss!!

I think that about covers it! ;D ;D ;D


Welcome back though seriously. You have been missed.

If you don't mind me asking.... how much did the surgery cost and what part of the US are you in? I have a very good friend and coworker that is wanting to have it done, but is afraid of the cost. Her name is Traci. I just told her what you had lost after reading this and she asked me to ask you that. IM me the answer if you don't want to make it public.

Thanks!!

[Blue Oreo]

My surgery was done here in Alaska. My insurance bc/bs covered all but 10% of it. The total was 35k, and my out of pocket was 5k. There is a wonderful site that helps out and there in now medical financing for those whos insurance wont cover it.. the site is obesityhelp.com there is a chat room I am ERIN_AK in there and in there nightly and daily. There is massive information posted throughout the site on various doctors around the world and different types of WLS (weight loss sugeries) available. I did the same one Carney Wilson did, LAP RNY. My limitations of meals is about 4-5 bites each meal and I have to eat 4-5 meals a day to get my 70 grams of proteins in each day. I dont feel hungry and dont feel deprieved when out with family eating in restaurants. I have lots of doggy bags or the kids eat whats leftover. I know I am a cheap date now. lol good luck for your friend.. please feel free to have her PM me and ask me more. she can find me in the wls chatroom nightly. I have a profile there too and you can see before and after pics.. Mostly everyone there has one and the info is awesome.

[camismom]

Thanks so much for sharing that info! I will definitely forward it on to Traci!!

[Blue Oreo]

HEY CAMI.. here is the addy to my WLS site, it has many albums of me and the family, there is also an album with before and after pictures of me, I think its album 6.. enjoy, its fun and there are pics of wildlife up here in Alaska too

www.PictureTrail.com/erin-ak