hmm
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Post by hmm on Feb 21, 2005 21:02:30 GMT -5
How do you tolerate your adhd significant others excessive talking and not being able to just sit and relax?
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Post by Linda on Feb 21, 2005 21:17:17 GMT -5
 hmm... I guess I would find another room to go to and relax 
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mothercat
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Post by mothercat on Feb 22, 2005 10:15:11 GMT -5
Ditto on that.. thats why I have a big house, but they do tend to follow ya and they do require an audiance . Keep in mind how entertaining they really are and how much you would miss not having them around. It might help.
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Post by Kaiti on Feb 23, 2005 11:07:26 GMT -5
My husband and I go on opposites...when he talks I pretend to listen, and when I talk he pretends to listen. :oIt doesn't soun dvery nice, but it actually works and helps.
Just sorta nod your head and uh huh your way through things. When they are not in the middle of a thought, sit down and have a really good talk with them about how sometimes it annoys you that you want some quiet time when they keep on goin gwith every thought going through their head coming out of their mouth.
That might tick them off, so choose your words carefully, telling them that you don't want to sound offensive, BUT you want a little quiet.
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