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Post by Linda on Apr 2, 2004 21:34:55 GMT -5
aimee...I don't think you lack communications skills...honey if you can't talk to her put it down on paper for her to read.  I wish you luck! |
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Post by Honeysmom on Apr 3, 2004 17:11:34 GMT -5
Linda, you are right on the mark with that one!! I always want to say or tell people stuff, but I can't do it, so I write it down. My counselor told me that is one of the best ways to get anger out. I think he is right, sometimes I will write this long angry note to Jerry when I am mad at him and then I feel better. I end up ripping it up and being able to talk to him. Granted, I am sure my issues with his are less of a big deal (house cleaning and such  ) but the effect may be the same. If not, you could always just give her the letter. Mabe, It is too bad that you and your mom can't really talk. Sometimes my parents will act the same way buy telling me how I should or do feel, but I have learned to blow them off. It took alot of practice to do that. They still get to me here and there. Good luck, I hope you can get her to see how you feel! |
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