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Post by tamienator on Apr 9, 2005 8:55:11 GMT -5
my son has been on meds since age 7 for adhd/odd. He is now 13. He goes to the psych every 2 months. Last spring was bad at school, getting phone calls from teachers and emails. He started on some couseling last spring and this year at school went pretty good. ..... tthen about february the anger and meaniness started back up. where he isnt afraid of anyone. He even got kicked out of school for partial day. We started him on riperdal and took him off the remeron. (was taking addreal 40 + lexapro am / strattera + remeron) It went ok for a a couple weeks and we are continue to work on his behavioral. Last week I didnt give is morning meds adderall/lexapro so he can have a break and eat more. . He continued with his evening meds as they need to stay in his system. He only ways 75lbs and is 13) no school. Then monday he went back on adderall and lexapr plus his evening meds. since the break was over. Monday and tuesday went very good. ............then wednesday he was agressive and very argumentative. Thurdsay he was caught hitting another kid. So now we are just using the Strattera 60mg and risperdal 1.0 mg. To get his mood/behavioral under control as his doctor said. Has anyone had these problems and what helped you. The reason for the meds is he ADHD and high adderall and of course he picks alot and even started to pull his hair out. Plus had trouble going to sleep. The school is very helpful and very patient. but Im sure they will be glad when school is out.
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Post by tridlette on Apr 9, 2005 9:32:54 GMT -5
Welcome to our forums! Boy... have I been where you are! I think it is the beginning of puberty! Michael was at the end of 7th grade when he hit that personality stuff! It was like living with The Incredible Hulk... one minute he was just a jolly green giant, and then WHAMMY out of nowhere came the raving, raging monster. We took him off the adderall and saw almost immediate results! I then started him on Strattera, and again, literally, overnight, he was Mr. Wonderful! He bounced out of bed on Day #1 (first dose at night), ate TWO bowls of cereal, dressed, brushed his teeth, packed up his bag, came in to give me a hug and kiss and had time to WAIT for the bus... not run and still miss it like usual! Now, for you... let's see... Adjusting meds in obviously on your mind... and it will take some time. Chances are, if you eliminate the Adderall, he will start to grow some... partly because of the no Adderall and partly because it sounds like puberty... his poor little body is all chemically imbalanced (like all teenagers!) So, you will make an adjustment, see a little result, think things are going great, and then be ready for the next weight jump and need to readjust meds again. Michael started all that TWO years ago... and I can honestly say that for the most part, I have the jolly green giant here more often than the HULK these days. high school seemed to be a very positive thing for him... he has girl friends and chats with everyone now... and isn't the little recluse that used to sleep at my house. Early teen years are definitely the roller coaster years, but you can make it through because you love him! AND WE ARE HERE FOR YOU NOW! WELCOME AGAIN! Laurie
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Post by savvymom1 on Apr 9, 2005 19:30:22 GMT -5
Hi and welcome! You will love this site as a place of support.
Our kids are doing similar things! My 14 yr old dd also has been pulling out her hair. She is working on a lovely bald spot. She also has trouble falling asleep (up until 2:00 or 3:00 in the morning).
In January she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. The symptoms often begin in early teens and luckily we took her in for an evaluation. Aggression, depression, lack of sleep, argumentative, etc., she is doing it all.
Last week was especially rough. Her aggressive periods and rages are happening several times a week now. The meds we are trying aren't doing a lot to help her. At least she is able to sleep with her new meds.
She got mad at a girl on the bus--they began arguing and it came to blows. My precious, adorable 14 yr old has been given three days of out of school suspension! How can this be happening to us?
You may want to run his recent behavior by your doc. He may suggest something new to try. For a while I was chalking this up to teenage moodiness. In our case it was more. Respirdal is sometimes given for aggression I think. We tried abilify for two weeks (bad side effects), Seroquel for several weeks (no help with the aggression) and now adding depakote to the seroquel. The quest for the right meds can be so difficult!
Hang in there. Your sure to get good advice from the wonderful posters here.
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Post by tamienator on Apr 10, 2005 9:47:03 GMT -5
Thanks for the imput. I know last year the doc was chalking it up to homones and puberty. Which I agreed since I see my other son who went thru it. My other son also has add but nothing like my other son. He responds to meds very well. I am hoping that he will stay on task at school without the adderall. Oh well I should be use to the trial and error stuff. He has been on so many meds and combination. I feel for him. He did seem happier yesterday ... so cross your fingers. I know a small part of the problem is that he gets teased and the kids know what buttons to push to make him mad. Of course they do not get caught, just my son who gets tired of it. We may never get out of counseling. ..... hehe. THANKS AGAIN
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Post by Amsmom on Apr 10, 2005 16:46:05 GMT -5
tamie, welcome and a to you. i do know what you are going through. my ds9 was dx adhd/odd at 4, bipolar was added at 7. it's hard to find the right meds for mood disorders, but it's possible! we finally have the "closest to being right" combo of depakote, risperdal and elavil. (knock wood) my ds is unable to take any stims as they increase the negative behaviors. i do agree that your ds may be reacting to the bullying of the other kids but can you ask the dr if it is possible that the stims are making it worse? keep us posted. we are all here for you.
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Post by Amsmom on Apr 10, 2005 16:48:18 GMT -5
savvymom, i will keep fingers and toes crossed for the depakote to help your dd. it has done wonders to help stabilize my ds's mood. please let us know.
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Post by AnneM on Apr 11, 2005 15:14:11 GMT -5
A big welcome to you tamienator ... I really hope you will find this place as much like home as many of us here do !!
13 is a rough age!! ... PERIOD!! ... The moodiness at that age (even without any other complications such as add/adhd, bipolar, etc.etc.) can be tough ... When my son was 13 (he is now 16) I honestly sometimes thought I had a monster on my hands !! ... Further down the line I can see I just had a "puberty struck badly" teenager who incidentally also was diagnosed with depression at that same age ... Significantly, once we got the depression under control things became HUGELY improved ... so that is another thing to be"ruled out" ...
Also as Amsmom says please get your doctor to be sure that the stims (adderall) is not making the moodiness worse ...
GOOD GOOD LUCK ... please keep us posted.
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