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Post by Honeysmom on Feb 19, 2004 21:26:05 GMT -5
Kaiti,
That did make me laugh! I swore when I was pregnant with Honey the Church was trying to kill me! DH was Baptised, First Comm., and all the rest of the stuff on Holy Saturday, in a really loooooong service. This was April 3rd, I had Honey April 9th. Any how, I was DH's sponsor, so I had to kneel in the front of chruch for 1 hr and 15 minutes through the whole Sacrement portion! I can't beleive that I didn't give birth right there. Needless to say, I was not a happy camper.
Tomorrow is my appointment. I think I figured out my some of my anger on my own. I am jelous of DH, he has a life and I don't. He works, goes to a class, and has been subbing for Pool league for the last few weeks. My main outings are to the grocery store and Doctor's office. I am really getting ready for school to start next year. Then again, then I will probably complain about all the time I wish I had!!!
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Post by rosyred45 on Feb 19, 2004 21:45:43 GMT -5
OH, I Can relate to the hubby having a life thing. The past few years, mine was in a dart leauge, well, now that his schedule has been so scattered, he can't make the number of games the he needs to make play offs, so he isn't in it this year. I ended up taking on a couple of things so that I can be out of the house, but for some strange reason, I have my kids in tow half the time.  At least they'll know what community and volunteerism is  Hubby just walked by and didn't think the comment about miracles never ceasing was THAT funny....I'm still laughing ;D ;D ;D I tend to bundle up and sit on our porch for no reason, we smoke outside, but lately I've been wrappingup in a blanket and just sitting and watching the world go by, day dreaming, or night dreaming if the sun went down. Just something to takwe me away to my own little paradise. Maids, nanny's, cute pool boys, oops, sorry, your Catholic, no bad thoughts, no bad thoughts.... ;D Kaiti |
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Post by Honeysmom on Feb 20, 2004 0:33:05 GMT -5
I thought the comment about the miracles was funny. ;D I like to sit in the basement by the fire (wood burning furnace). If I can sneak down there without having to turn on the light on the stairs I get about 10 minutes before the kids realize that I am gone. I can hear DH upstairs saying "No, I don't know where mom went, she might be upstairs." If I am really lucky I can open up the window just a little so I don't have to go out to smoke. DH pretends he doesn't notice  . I was doing really good quitting while I was taking Wellbutrin, I was almost there, then I had to stop taking it. The backlash was awful! It took me about 6 or 7 weeks to get down to 2 cigarettes a day, then with in a week I was right back to where I started. I think I might try that patch, I'll have to see, it probably is going to do me no good if I don't put any effort into it. One day..... Becky |
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Post by finnmom on Feb 20, 2004 3:17:45 GMT -5
Honeysmom and rosyred  I´am no smoker, never had tried But I have to admit that when ever I need to calm down, watching fire help´s, there is something so calming about that  Also a walk in the forest  that´s great, being somewhere where you really notice how small all the problem´s are, how big and wonderful world this is, someplace where you can actually HEAR your thought´s ;D About not having a life ;D well, seems like I have somekind of a 30´s crisis; I seem to have nothing to wait or concuer anymore I´ve achieved everything I had in mind as younger; career, kid´s, hubby, house.... Any good idea´s, what could I dream of now.... Marja |
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Post by rosyred45 on Feb 20, 2004 6:32:24 GMT -5
Fire's have always been mezmerising to me, we don't have a fireplace or woodstove for that matter, but when we feel like it, we'll pile the grill up and pretend we have a fire. That is, after the kids have gone to bed so we can keep the doors shut and don't have to buy marshmallows. I haven't felt like trying to quit smoking, the harder I try to do something like that, the harder it is on me psycologically, so if I cut back, I cut back, if I quit, I quit. FIL quit cold turkey about 5 yrs ago. No warning, just felt like it. Well, unfortunately he's been stressed lately, but he did just make his mind up to do it. Don't beat yourself up over it, or that'll just make it worse, Becky. One stress at a time....but don't you hate it when they all sneak up on ya at one time ;D Hope ya feel a little better today Kaiti |
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Post by 1mom on Feb 20, 2004 21:16:16 GMT -5
made ME laugh. heeeheeeeeeee
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Post by Honeysmom on Feb 23, 2004 21:20:26 GMT -5
Well, I had the big appoinment last Friday. First he wanted to discuss if I was depressed. We decided I was not. I am seeing him a few more times and then go from there. It made me feel better so I'll stick with it.
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Post by rosyred45 on Feb 23, 2004 21:46:12 GMT -5
Well, at least you feel a little better.....If you need any more pick me ups, ask me how my day was, and then ask me what happened ;D That'll definately make you feel like you don't have the world caving around ya  Talk to ya Kaiti |
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Post by Honeysmom on Feb 23, 2004 23:30:33 GMT -5
Thanks... ;D Jerry and I always joke b/c no matter how mad I am or bad my day goes, there is always someone who has it worse. He did a really nice thing for me this weekend. I had to work all weekend at the bar (see section on questions about anxiety ) I thought I was going to loose it before Monday rolled around. Then I called home to him last night and he told me that he made arrangements for a girl we know (and she is 19 with her own car!!!!) to watch my kids on Thursday night for his pool league and for Saturday! I get to go out to two dates in one week! I think that was really thoughtful of him. Plus, now I know he is listening when I get mad......Becky |
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Post by rosyred45 on Feb 24, 2004 6:35:45 GMT -5
Awwwwwww, Jerry's so sweet. Have fun. I always think the along the same lines. Someone else does have it worse than me, so I try to count my blessings. Sometimes I need a magnifying glass to see the blessings, but they are there. OK, the day got better as it went on, but on the way to work, the windshieldwipers stopped int he middle of the windshield, so I had to get out and bang the moter with a hammer. In the process of getting out of the truc, I spilled my coffee :oNNNOOOOOO Thank goodness I decided to start anotheritfor hubby for when he woke up, so it'd be nice and fresh, just not full, since I had to go get some out of it. BUT I wansn't late for work ;D It only takes a minute to drive around the corner, lazy yes, but it's chilly first thing in the morning And hubby is on night shift this week  I only like it because I get him all to myself during the day, I just don't get to see him until he wakes up in the morning. BUT I GET CLEANING DONE ;D ;D ;D Kaiti |
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Post by aaa-alison on May 6, 2004 20:33:29 GMT -5
I know how you feel. Man maybe we are all having Spring Fever go to our head. I know I'm irritated and depressed cause I'm irritated and depressed. Well, I know how you feel about the Catholic Church stuff. But please don't feel guilty, god is always there with you, working for you and working through you. When things feel right they usually are. -A
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